One year on – still in lockdown

I can hardly believe it’s now just over a year since I started this covid blog. It’s strange re-reading the stress and confusion of 12 months ago. However, not much has changed and we are still in lockdown!

After I last wrote in July, things seemed to be getting better over the summer. We all had to wear masks in shops or confined spaces, but restaurants opened up and the government introduced an ‘Eat Out To Help Out’ scheme so meals were much cheaper.

At the start of August the university library re-opened and I started going into the office a couple of days a week. We have to work apart and there’s only a few people in at any time, but it’s lovely to see people again.

We managed to get away to see Paul’s sister in Wales. Paul biked there and back and me, James and Joanna followed in the car. The weather was stunning and we had some great walks. Reuben had to work as David Lloyd was back open and he was working lots.

Later in the summer, we finally managed to celebrate James’s 21st with his fast car track day and a family meal.

Paul and I had a 3 day mini-break at a hotel in North Yorkshire for our anniversary. Although the weather wasn’t great, we had a lovely time walking and enjoying the lovely food. We then had a couple of days in London as we took James down to his new flat in Wood Green. Everything was starting to feel a lot more normal.

Church re-opened in mid August with socially distanced, masked services. No singing or refreshments after the service were allowed, it was all very strange.

Joanna was still delivering her packages to the old folk until the start of September and Minnie, our oldest church member made her a lovely blanket to say thank you. Joanna dyed her hair pink ready for university and also got the results of her Foundation Art Degree – she got a Distinction!

Unfortunately, people returning from abroad and then going straight back to school, work and university saw cases start to rise in September. Joanna started university in September and we drove her over to her new halls. Unfortunately, within a couple of weeks one of her flatmates tested positive and she had to isolate in her flat. It was really difficult getting shopping delivered to them. Soon after she could go out again, Sheffield went into ‘Tier 3’ restrictions which was pretty much a lockdown, although shops were still open. I had managed to get over for a visit and to take her walking boots to her as she’d joined the University walking club, unforutnately she only managed one group walk before the Tier 3 restrictions meant they couldn’t meet in big groups, or use public transport to travel to the peaks, but she has continued walking with one or two friends around Sheffield.

Cases in London seemed to be low and stable. James enjoyed being back in the dance studio and got his first set of professional headshots. Reuben went down for a weekend too.

Warrington was only in Tier 2, but cases were rising rapidly and we moved to Tier 3 at the end of October. Soon after that though the whole country was put into another lockdown which meant Reuben had his 18th birthday plans severely curtailed. We arranged some balloons to be delivered and we got friends and family to record video messages, but it wasn’t the night out at the pub that he’d wanted.

I had an eye appointment during the lockdown and it was very strange to be in Golden Square in peak Christmas shopping period and it to be empty. My Glitterarti online orders were through the roof though!

After the November lockdown the government promised that Christmas would see a bit of a relaxation of rules so families could spend a few days together. We joined a gym and started enjoying working out and relaxing there. However, even as cases went down across the country in the lockdown there had been a noticeable increase in cases in Kent that quickly spread into London and up the country. Restrictions in London were ramped up and James work in Nando’s dropped off so he came home on the Thursday before Christmas. By Sunday, London has been plunged into a full lockdown and the Christmas relaxations had been scaled back across the country.

On the day James came home I’d started with a sore throat. I double checked it wasn’t a known covid symptom, and we’d been putting up decorations at my mum’s house so I thought I’d got dust down my throat when I got things out of the loft. Late at night I noticed my temperature had gone up a bit, although far from a fever, so I booked a test as a precaution. We were supposed to be running an outdoor carol service on the Sunday so we prayed the result would be negative, but it came back positive. This meant we had to isolate for 10 days, which would include Christmas Day. Mum had to isolate too as part of our bubble and because I’d seen her in the week.

It was a grim Christmas, all stuck inside and desperately trying to book online food order slots. All the presents that were ready to be posted went unposted. Fortunately we had great friends who brought us food and helped taking food to my mum. I wasn’t too unwell, but very tired and listless. My weird symptom was excessive burping. I didn’t really cough at all, but did have headaches and a runny nose.

Paul cooked on Christmas Day – our pre-booked Turkey that a good friend collected and delivered for us. However, by Boxing Day he and Joanna had symptoms and got tests. Strangely Joanna was positive, but Paul was negative. So New Year was difficult too!

As the January started it was clear the new covid variant was spreading very fast. Schools were told to go back, but one day later the whole country was put into another full lockdown. Reuben still had to go in for his Btec exams, even when all other A-Levels were cancelled. The lockdown isn’t quite as severe as the first one. Shops can do click and collect orders and medical courses can still teach at universities, so I have still been going into work, but just once a week now. Schools stayed open for Key Worker children, but the definition was widened so a lot more children were in.

Neither James nor Joanna could return to university so we were back to dance classes and university lectures over zoom. When James had gone back to London in September we’d turned his room into an office for me, so now we were fighting over space too! James worked in the kitchen. He’s had a tough time trying to plan his dissertion from home. Their performance of Guys and Dolls planned for January has also been moved to May. It’s also very unclear how they will showcase themselves to agents, assuming theatres are allowed to re-open at some point.

We had another some more lockdown birthdays, Joanna turned 20 and we had another milestone birthday as Paul turned 50. We managed a family zoom call a walk and a lovely meal at home.

This lockdown has been quite different, mainly as it’s been dark and cold and the weather has been quite bad – we’ve even had quite a bit of snow. In January there were floods in the local area. We’ve managed a few walks, but it’s been harder to be motivated to get out and about. We have focussed on inside jobs, redecorating our bedroom and buying a new bed and mattress. We’ve also started doing yoga every morning. It’s been so hard to keep fit and we’re all a bit heavier than when this first started.

Church has been closed since Christmas, but we are doing online services now. For the 2nd year Mother’s Day has been in lockdown, but at least we can have my mum round as part of our bubble this year.

Schools have re-opened from the 8th March and university courses with practical elements can restart so James is back at university. Joanna has also gone back, even though all her lectures are still online. We’ve also welcomed a new great-niece, although as she lives in Wales who knows when we will be able to see her? There is a roadmap for opening up the country, but covid is continuing to ravage the world.

Do you remember the lemon tree we bought from IKEA just before the first lockdown, Joanna claimed it as hers and called it ‘Pancake’ in the hope it would provide lemons for pancake day. And this year, it did! We had homegrown lemon juice on our pancakes.

As I said at the start the one good thing is the vaccine which should help to protect people from the worst of the disease and ease pressure on the NHS. The first vaccines were administered in early December. Mum had her first dose in January and is booked in for her 2nd dose soon. Today, as I got my jab, they have announced that half the adult population has had their first dose. Here’s hoping for a brighter future!

Another New normal

A long time has passed since I last wrote. Things are starting to open up a bit more and so we have been a bit busier with people round. James has been out to see friends in Chester and Manchester and Joanna has seen her pub quiz friends in person (including an unfortunate incident with a friend being sick in our car!). Reuben’s girlfriend has been round and James and Reuben have been out playing football.

My mum has continued to come round on Sundays and we have also had visits from Paul’s sister and brother-in-law and his niece Becky. Paul has biked over to see his brother too.

James has finished the last of his virtual performances for this year and all his work has been submitted.

Reuben has started his driving lessons again and also has a date for his theory test, but not until September. Hairdressers have re-opened and I have an appointment next week, unfortunately that was the earliest date I could get as everyone want an appointment!

At the start of July Disney released the recording of the Broadway version of Hamilton. It gave me, James and Joanna something to really look forward to. Mum watched it and she enjoyed it too. We’ve also watched the National Theatre version of A Midsummer Nights Dream and the ballet Cinderella from the Royal Albert Hall.

The biggest thing to happen in the last couple of weeks is that Joanna has been really ill and in pain with a swollen jaw and difficulty opening her mouth and talking. She saw the doctor who said it was an infection and gave her strong painkiller. By Saturday she was crying with pain and the emergency doctors said she should go to A & E. In the current situation Joanna has to go into hospital on her own and wear a mask, which was hard as it would have been much easier if I could have gone with her. We always suspected it was her jaw being out of line as she never had a temperature or any redness, but the A & E doctor still thought it was an infection. The doctor was quite merciless in her poking and prodding of her jaw and then she had an x-ray where she had to bite down, both of which were incredibly painful for her. However, they must have knocked something into place as when she got home she was finally pain free, which was a huge relief.

I also had a trip to the doctors for a smear test. Doctors are starting to offer them again, so I donned my mask and went along. Thankfully the results were negative.

Paul had a big day out on Sunday, going to the Yorkshire Dales cycling with his Mamil buddies.

We’ve had a good crop of redcurrants and gooseberries this year. I’ve made gooseberry crumble and I’ve tried this new recipe for redcurrant crunch. We’ve also got redcurrant gin on the go!

Cape Sankey

This week Paul and I have been off work. We should have been in Cape Verde, but with nothing but essential travel allowed out of the country and a 14 day quarantine on return, not to mention Cape Verde also being locked down, we didn’t end up flying anywhere.

I say we were off work, but Paul delivered a lecture on Tuesday and has started an Open University course, funded by work, about successful delivery of online courses. I’ve popped in to manage a couple of things that currently only I can do, but only for half an hour or so.

After 3 months of what feels like unbroken sunshine, the weather this week has turned and it’s rained most days and been much colder. Typical when we’re on holiday! Paul has managed a few bike rides and I’ve been out running a couple of times.

It’s been so cold that Joanna thought it was Christmas! She had to dress as something beginning with S for her Friday night Zoom quiz night.

I’ve made some face masks as they are starting to advise people to wear them. They are compulsory on public transport and in medical settings now. Reuben thinks his is a fashion statement. I’m fairly sure Sainsbury’s would have phoned the police if he’d turned up like that in January!!

On Monday we had a day out to Tegg’s Nose Country Park near Macclesfield. It was lovely to be out in the peaks. The walk is basically down for 800ft and then back up again! It got my heart rate up! The views from the top were stunning across the Cheshire countryside and round to Manchester.

On Wednesday I went to Boots for contact lens solution and hair dye. Reuben had been desperate to go to MacDonalds now they are open again, so I queued up for the drive through. Joanna was out working for Serve Legal in Manchester.

Mum had got her car battery fixed and on Wednesday she went to Marks and Spencers Food Hall, her first trip out to a shop since the beginning of March. She enjoyed getting out again. They’ve also said single people can form a ‘support bubble’ with one other household, so she’s coming over for tea tomorrow.

On Thursday in another exciting first Joanna, Reuben and I went to the garden centre to buy growbags. We got some plants for the front garden too.

I’ve read a few books while I’ve been off. It seems we’re all turning to dystopian fiction – James has been reading 1984, I’ve read The Testaments and Paul is reading The Establishment, which isn’t fiction, but equally dystopian!

Last night we watched the National Theatre stream of the Madness of George III from Nottingham Playhouse. It was excellent.

In the wider world, Covid has been overshadowed by the death of a black man, George Floyd in America after a police man used a restraining technique of kneeling on his neck for 9 minutes, even after he had complained multiple times that he couldn’t breathe. The murder has caused outrage across America and the whole world. ‘Black Lives Matter’ protests have happened in many major cities and there has been a lot of discussion online about how people can educate themselves and stand up to racism. Last week there was a day of protest amongst the performing arts community to educate people and promote black artists, but everyone got involved, including major brands and influencers and there’s been a lot of backlash that people are just jumping on the bandwagon and won’t actually change their practices.

in Bristol, protesters tore down the statue of a slave trader, Edward Colston, who had used his wealth to endow schools and civic buildings and funds in Bristol. It’s lead to a big debate about whether statues should be left up, even if the people depicted had dubious legacies, or whether them standing can educate people.

It’s finished!

Not Covid or the lockdown, although there has been some loosening of restrictions, but a number of things have finished in the Smalley household.

Across the country schools have been allowed to re-open for reception, Y1 and Y6. Y10 and Y12 can open for small groups to prepare for exams. A lot of parents aren’t sending their children back and the logistics of keeping children in small ‘bubbles’ and away from each other is really difficult for schools. People are now able to go out and meet up in people’s gardens or parks. Up to 6 people can meet in England so it’s not much use to us as we are already 5! Football and some other sports are allowed as long as people keep distance. Reuben has been out for a kick-about with a mate and has seen his girlfriend Anna a few times. After 38 Coronasolo rides Paul has been out for a couple of socially distanced rides with his friend Iain. He’s ridden 500 miles in May.

Some shops are opening up. On Monday there were massive queues at IKEA well before it re-opened, and today there have been queues as local McDonalds have re-opened. The weather has been lovely and lots of people had been crowding to beaches and tourist spots. There have been several accidents from people tombstoning and jumping into reservoirs and canals.

So what has been finished for the Smalleys? Well the big news is Joanna has done her last shift at Hermes. She really didn’t enjoy the job and she has been able to pick up some work from Serve Legal.

We’ve finished another jigsaw, even Reuben got hooked doing this one.

Most amazingly I’ve finished the Butterfly Cottage cross stitch which Paul’s mum and dad gave me in the late 1990s! I stitched the cottage bit before James was born, but the size of the frame means it has only come out occassionally. I never though I’d see the day it was finished.

Paul and I have finished work tonight. We should be jetting off to Cape Verde tomorrow, but we’ll be staying at home. The weather has also broken today and we’ve had the first rain for weeks. It’s going to be much colder for the next few days, so I’m not sure what we’ll do.

I also had a first at work when I presented from two laptops to the Talis Developers Group about my work on Google Data Studio and developing SQL queries on the Talis data server. Paul is quite the pro at online presenting, although he did come across some of the problems of auto-subtitling videos!

The weather has been lovely for the last week. The flowers are all coming out and the tadpoles are starting to become frogs!

Another first was having sushi made by James friends dad Taka. He’s an renowned Sushi chef and is doing takeaway during the lockdown. It was delicious.

James and Reuben went round to mum’s last week and did some gardening for her. I’ve been round on Tuesday to take her shopping. Her car battery has died so she can’t take advantage of being able to drive further yet.

On Monday we had a rare occurance when all 5 of us were out. Paul went out on his bike and me and the children all went out for a walk by the canal. The light was lovely, but we all got bitten by the midges.

The Dominic Cummings affair.

The big news in the country at the moment is all about the Prime Ministers Special Advisor, Dominic Cummings, who broke the lockdown to drive to Durham with his wife and child while he had Covid symptoms at the time the advise was to stay at your main residence and not leave if you had symptoms.  But apparently he acted on parental instinct so it’s all OK.  Lots of people are very, very angry when they have suffered so much under the lockdown, struggling with children when they were ill and missing seeing parents who have since died and not even being able to travel to funerals.

In the Smalley household things have continued pretty much the same.  Work and college have carried on, and although we can go out a bit more, we haven’t been anywhere.  I’ve felt quite low this week. I think the monotony of the situation and the lack of things to look forward to is getting to a lot of people. 

James’s year did a group recording of New York, New York.  It was fabulous how nearly 100 of them had recorded themselves and someone had put them all together.  Unfortunately they can’t share it. 

James has also decided to move his room around. He started on Wednesday evening and I wondered if I would have an office in the kitchen on Thursday as it was full of boxes and guitars! Joanna and Reuben helped him. It was quite worrying hearing the screams of ‘Stop! Stop! it’s breaking’ as they moved the wardrobe. In the end it was all OK and the room looks good now. He has a space to dance and do his classes in, and he’s bought some guitar holders for the wall.

On Thursday we attended our first Zoom service which Jeremy, our Team Rector led for Ascension Day.  There were a few technical sound issues, but it was lovely to see friends from church and worship together.

Afterwards, Paul took the plunge and let Reuben cut his hair.  It went very well!

On Sunday morning, while I was scrolling through Facebook I spotted Joanna on the Warrington Guardian Facebook feed! One of the parishioners she takes the services to had contacted them about her and they’d written an article.  She’s has so many lovely messages.

I’ve started running (again).  I’m trying to run to heart rate, but it’s hard when it shoots up as soon as I start running!  Paul’s been on several rides including a long one today.  James and Reuben have been doing a mad Nike abs workout.  They did it today outside and it made Reuben throw up. 

I’ve done some gardening today, planting the bedding plants we ordered from the local Scouts which arrived on Friday.

Paul got a nice surprise today.  Last week his term as Chair of NASACRE came to an end.  Obviously it should have been at a big meeting, but it ended up being by tweet.  Today a lovely hamper arrived as a thank you for all his work. 

VE Day and lockdown relaxing

Last Friday was a bank holiday. The May Day Bank Holiday Monday had been moved to the Friday to celebrate the 75th Anniversary of VE Day. Joanna did her church deliveries and I baked scones and cakes ready for our VE Day afternoon tea in the garden. The weather was incredible, like full summer! The boys laid the garden table, including putting a tablecloth on.

People had been encouraged to have ‘socially distanced’ street parties, and we could hear music from a few. Nothing was arranged in our street, and in many ways I’m glad as there were lots of instances of people inadvertently breaking rules, including the infamous Grappenhall conga, but I saw people online sharing dressing up clothes, or using the same sports equipment one after another.

Paul went on an epic big bike ride round Bolton reservoirs. Nearly 70 miles! We had a BBQ for tea.

We enjoyed the lovely weather again on Saturday, but it wasn’t as nice on Sunday. I went out for a long walk with Reuben on Monday, along the canal to the Ferry Inn and back through Penketh. He was talking about how he’s been keeping talking to the girl he went on a date with on the last Friday before lockdown, but even when the rules are relaxed they probably won’t meet as it will be too hard to stay 2m apart.

On my walk last night, although it was sunny, it was really cold! I had a jumper and a coat on and still had cold hands when I got in.

On Sunday Boris Johnson announced that they are relaxing lockdown restrictions from today (Wednesday). They are encouraging manufacturing industry to return to work, garden centres opened today and a lot of fast food places are opening again for drive through or take away. We can also go out as much as we want for exercise, and we can meet one person in the park. We can also drive to exercise and play sports with members of our household. The messages are really mixed – you can have a nanny or cleaner in the house, but not your grandparents. Travel abroad is still restricted and they are going to introduce a 14 quarantine on people returning from overseas (except France for some reason) so holidays are pretty much out. There is a lot of controversy about whether schools can re-open in June. They want to start with Reception, Year 1 and Year 6 which seems slightly odd. The logistics of socially distancing children are hard to imagine. The next step would be restaurants in July, but that depends on virus numbers dropping and they don’t seem to be dropping very fast.

They also want us to start wearing facemasks on public transport or in shops, but when I was shopping for mum today, very few people were.

We had a WI meeting tonight – a Facebook led scavanger hunt. It was good fun and I won the raffle!

We’re still enjoying watching Spooks, The Mash Report and ‘I’ll Get This’ on TV. We watched Frankenstein from the National Theatre last week. Johnny Lee Miller and Benedict Cumberbatch were the leads. We watched it twice as they reverse roles each night, one being the monster and one being Frankenstein. It was really good.

Home haircuts

The big excitement this weekend was the arrival of the hair clippers we ordered from Amazon. Reuben has been moaning for weeks that his hair is getting annoying and too long, so on Saturday Joanna watched a couple of YouTube videos and then began her career in barbering! She did a really good job and even got her scissors out and did a bit of snipping at the longer hair Reuben didn’t want clippered. Paul wanted his eyebrows trimmed, but Joanna drew the line at that so he had to do those himself.

I went with Joanna on her long walk on Saturday delivering the services to the people without internet. It’s a 5.5 mile walk that she does every week. It was lovely to see Minnie and other folk from church.

We have started watching Spooks again from the beginning and watched another episode on Saturday night. Joanna was on the early 6am shift on Sunday so she went to bed early.

This morning Paul and I watched the St Philip’s service while in bed. This afternoon I did the ironing while watching Silver Lining Playbooks.

We had a family walk tonight, but Joanna was too tired to join us. It was lovely and peaceful out in the park and loads of birdsong.

Mum rang tonight and her cousin Mavis has died. The details are a bit confused. She had been ill with dementia for a long time, but still sad new to hear.

New job

Today Joanna has started her new job at Hermes. She had an induction this morning and did her first shift this afternoon. The communication and organisation has been a bit poor, but eventually she did find out where she was meant to go for her induction and eventually got boots so she could start her shift.

We went out and clapped for the key workers tonight and said we were doing it for Joanna 😂.

The work was hard and she was tired and hungry when she got home. I’d been to the shop to buy her chocolate and Paul and I made her a cake.

The new normal.

After my birthday we had a week of the new normal. Back to work for Paul and I and college for Joanna and Reuben.

On Tuesday Joanna found out she doesn’t have to submit any more work for her foundation art degree as too many people don’t have access to the materials and tools they need. She is continuing to do her worship packs though as she doesn’t want to abandon the old folks who look forward to seeing her each week. She got a lovely thank you card from one of the ladies who phones Minnie each week to read the service to her.

This week the farm shop had some bedding plants so she can finally carry out her plan to do plants in teacups as part of the project. We’ve been walking round the area helping her carry them to leave outside the houses of everyone in the church family.

This week James has gone back to Conti classes. He’s got a full timetable, and so far the dancing is mainly working out OK, and he’s enjoying doing singing and acting classes again. The house feels quite crowded now with a stage school, two working parents, Reuben still doing college work and Joanna planting her plants!

Last week the weather continued to be beautiful and we could eat outside and still get out for lovely walks runs and bike rides. James even went out on a couple of rides with Paul. This week the weather has changed and its much colder and it’s rained today.

Mum continues to be OK, although her feet are quite painful, but no chance of a chiropodist at the moment. On Saturday the boys went over and mowed her lawn and did some tidying in the garden when they took her fruit and veg box over. Today Joanna’s been over to take her shopping.

We’ve had some interesting meals during lockdown. Paul continues to make his gourmet creations and last week Joanna followed the recipe IKEA shared and we had meatballs! We have bought a deep fat fryer so we can have proper chips and today James cooked us a cheeky Nandos!

We’ve been to the theatre a couple more times. We watched the Kander and Ebb musical with Jason Manford last week and Twelth Night from the National Theatre this week. Both were excellent productions. It makes a change to watch theatre every night instead of sport.

The big news is that Joanna is starting a new job tomorrow. We saw an advert for warehouse work a couple of weeks ago, but they only got back to her on Tuesday. We think it’s Amazon, but it’s through an agency and the communication isn’t great.

Our holiday was officially cancelled today. It had been obvious we wouldn’t be able to travel for a while, but seeing it in black and white has been a bit depressing. We can get a voucher for the full amount plus 20% to rebook, but we have no idea when we will be able to leave the country again, or when holidays will be back to anything like normal.

In the news the death toll continues to rise and there is no sign of the lockdown lifting. Care home deaths are now being reported alongside those in hospitals and it makes the figures much worse, over 26,000 now in the UK. Boris Johnson is finally back at work after recovering from the virus, and today his girlfriend gave birth.

Lockdown birthday

Today was my 48th birthday. We’re very fortunate that we still have free access to food and online streaming so the day didn’t seem too different to a normal birthday!

In the afternoon I watched the YouTube stream on Andrew Lloyd Weber’s channel of the 25th anniversary version of Phantom of the Opera. Paul cooked steak for my tea and Joanna made me a lovely cake.

Later in the evening we had a Zoom cheese and wine party with Carol and Ian, Paul’s sister and brother in law.

The lockdown was extended for another three weeks on Thursday. It wasn’t much of a surprise, but I think everyone is getting over the novelty of being at home and boredom is setting in.

I took food over to mum on Thursday. I’d been to the Co-op and Tesco looking for flour for her, but there’s none anywhere.

One thing Tesco did have was hair bleach and dye, so on Friday Joanna helped me to sort out my roots! It was a lovely day so I spent most of it reading in the garden and painting my nails (which I hardly ever do).

Roots all gone!

We had another lovely tea, homemade chicken kievs and chips made by Paul and I made a rhubarb meringue pie with rhubarb from mum’s garden.